svcrdma: Remove BH-disabled spin locking in svc_rdma_send()

svcrdma's current SQ accounting algorithm takes sc_lock and disables
bottom-halves while posting all RDMA Read, Write, and Send WRs.

This is relatively heavyweight serialization. And note that Write and
Send are already fully serialized by the xpt_mutex.

Using a single atomic_t should be all that is necessary to guarantee
that ib_post_send() is called only when there is enough space on the
send queue. This is what the other RDMA-enabled storage targets do.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>