fsldma: split apart external pause and request count features

When using the Freescale DMA controller in external control mode, both the
request count and external pause bits need to be setup correctly. This was
being done with the same function.

The 83xx controller lacks the external pause feature, but has a similar
feature called external start. This feature requires that the request count
bits be setup correctly.

Split the function into two parts, to make it possible to use the external
start feature on the 83xx controller.

Signed-off-by: Ira W. Snyder <iws@ovro.caltech.edu>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>