serial: Add common rs485 device tree parsing function

Several drivers have the same device tree parsing code. Create
a common helper function for it.

This patch bases on work done by Sascha Hauer.

Signed-off-by: Uwe Kleine-König <u.kleine-koenig@pengutronix.de>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>