blk-mq: provide internal in-flight variant

We don't have to inc/dec some counter, since we can just
iterate the tags. That makes inc/dec a noop, but means we
have to iterate busy tags to get an in-flight count.

Reviewed-by: Bart Van Assche <bart.vanassche@wdc.com>
Reviewed-by: Omar Sandoval <osandov@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>