xprtrdma: Rename frmr_wr

Clean up: Name frmr_wr after the opcode of the Work Request,
consistent with the send and local invalidation paths.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Tested-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Tested-by: Shirley Ma <shirley.ma@oracle.com>
Tested-by: Devesh Sharma <devesh.sharma@emulex.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>