cifs: do not ignore the SYNC flags in getattr

Check the AT_STATX_FORCE_SYNC flag and force an attribute
revalidation if requested by the caller, and if the caller
specificies AT_STATX_DONT_SYNC only revalidate cached attributes
if required.  In addition do not flush writes in getattr (which
can be expensive) if size or timestamps not requested by the
caller.

Reviewed-by: Aurelien Aptel <aaptel@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Ronnie Sahlberg <lsahlber@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Steve French <stfrench@microsoft.com>