xprtrdma: Ensure ri_id is stable during MR recycling

ia->ri_id is replaced during a reconnect. The connect_worker runs
with the transport send lock held to prevent ri_id from being
dereferenced by the send_request path during this process.

Currently, however, there is no guarantee that ia->ri_id is stable
in the MR recycling worker, which operates in the background and is
not serialized with the connect_worker in any way.

But now that Local_Inv completions are being done in process
context, we can handle the recycling operation there instead of
deferring the recycling work to another process. Because the
disconnect path drains all work before allowing tear down to
proceed, it is guaranteed that Local Invalidations complete only
while the ri_id pointer is stable.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>