ethtool: set device ring sizes with RINGS_SET request

Implement RINGS_SET netlink request to set ring sizes of a network device.
These are traditionally set with ETHTOOL_SRINGPARAM ioctl request.

Like the ioctl implementation, the generic ethtool code checks if supplied
values do not exceed driver defined limits; if they do, first offending
attribute is reported using extack.

v2:
  - fix netdev reference leak in error path (found by Jakub Kicinsky)

Signed-off-by: Michal Kubecek <mkubecek@suse.cz>
Reviewed-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>