virtio/test: fix up after IOTLB changes

Allow building vringh without IOTLB (that's the case for userspace
builds, will be useful for CAIF/VOD down the road too).
Update for API tweaks.
Don't include vringh with userspace builds.

Cc: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Cc: Eugenio Pérez <eperezma@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>