bpf: Add lookup_and_delete_elem support to hashtab

Extend the existing bpf_map_lookup_and_delete_elem() functionality to
hashtab map types, in addition to stacks and queues.
Create a new hashtab bpf_map_ops function that does lookup and deletion
of the element under the same bucket lock and add the created map_ops to
bpf.h.

Signed-off-by: Denis Salopek <denis.salopek@sartura.hr>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Yonghong Song <yhs@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/4d18480a3e990ffbf14751ddef0325eed3be2966.1620763117.git.denis.salopek@sartura.hr