RDMA/hns: Refactor capability configuration flow of VF

The capbability configurations of PFs and VFs are coupled. Decoupling them
by abstracting some functions and reorganizing the configuration process.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1621860428-58009-1-git-send-email-liweihang@huawei.com


Signed-off-by: Xi Wang <wangxi11@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Yixing Liu <liuyixing1@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Weihang Li <liweihang@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>