io_uring: abstract out task work running

Provide a helper to run task_work instead of checking and running
manually in a bunch of different spots. While doing so, also move the
task run state setting where we run the task work. Then we can move it
out of the callback helpers. This also helps ensure we only do this once
per task_work list run, not per task_work item.

Suggested-by: Oleg Nesterov <oleg@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>