devlink: convert remaining dumps to the by-instance scheme

Soon we'll have to check if a devlink instance is alive after
locking it. Convert to the by-instance dumping scheme to make
refactoring easier.

Most of the subobject code no longer has to worry about any devlink
locking / lifetime rules (the only ones that still do are the two subject
types which stubbornly use their own locking). Both dump and do callbacks
are given a devlink instance which is already locked and good-to-access
(do from the .pre_doit handler, dump from the new dump indirection).

Note that we'll now check presence of an op (e.g. for sb_pool_get)
under the devlink instance lock, that will soon be necessary anyway,
because we don't hold refs on the driver modules so the memory
in which ops live may be gone for a dead instance, after upcoming
locking changes.

Reviewed-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>