rpcrdma: Fix comments about reverse-direction operation

During the final stages of publication of RFC 8167, reviewers
requested that we use the term "reverse direction" rather than
"backwards direction". Update comments to reflect this preference.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Tom Talpey <tom@talpey.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>