f2fs: add the flush_merge handle in the remount flow

Add the *remount* handle of flush_merge option, so that the users
can enable flush_merge in the runtime, such as the underlying device
handles the cache_flush command relatively slowly.

Signed-off-by: Gu Zheng <guz.fnst@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Jaegeuk Kim <jaegeuk.kim@samsung.com>