fsldma: support async_tx dependencies and automatic unmapping

Previous to this patch, the dma_run_dependencies() function has been
called while holding desc_lock. This function can call tx_submit() for
other descriptors, which may try to re-grab the lock. Avoid this by
moving the descriptors to be cleaned up to a temporary list, and
dropping the lock before cleanup.

At the same time, add support for automatic unmapping of src and dst
buffers, as offered by the DMAEngine API.

Signed-off-by: Ira W. Snyder <iws@ovro.caltech.edu>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>