KVM: Add kvm_arch_sync_events to sync with asynchronize events

kvm_arch_sync_events is introduced to quiet down all other events may happen
contemporary with VM destroy process, like IRQ handler and work struct for
assigned device.

For kvm_arch_sync_events is called at the very beginning of kvm_destroy_vm(), so
the state of KVM here is legal and can provide a environment to quiet down other
events.

Signed-off-by: Sheng Yang <sheng@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Avi Kivity <avi@redhat.com>