genetlink: add a structure for dump state

Whenever netlink dump uses more than 2 cb->args[] entries
code gets hard to read. We're about to add more state to
ctrl_dumppolicy() so create a structure.

Since the structure is typed and clearly named we can remove
the local fam_id variable and use ctx->fam_id directly.

v3:
 - rebase onto explicit free fix
v1:
 - s/nl_policy_dump/netlink_policy_dump_state/
 - forward declare struct netlink_policy_dump_state,
   and move from passing unsigned long to actual pointer type
 - add build bug on
 - u16 fam_id
 - s/args/ctx/

Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Johannes Berg <johannes@sipsolutions.net>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>