DLM: fix race condition between dlm_send and dlm_recv

When kernel_sendpage(in send_to_sock) and kernel_recvmsg
(in receive_from_sock) return error, close_connection may works at the
same time. At that time, they may wait for each other by cancel_work_sync.

Signed-off-by: Tadashi Miyauchi <miayuchi@toshiba-tops.co.jp>
Signed-off-by: Tsutomu Owa <tsutomu.owa@toshiba.co.jp>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>