[BRIDGE]: fix for RCU and deadlock on device removal

Change Bridge receive path to correctly handle RCU removal of device
from bridge.  Also fixes deadlock between carrier_check and del_nbp.
This replaces the previous deleted flag fix.

Signed-off-by: Stephen Hemminger <shemminger@osdl.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>