net/cxgb4vf: Use new PCI_DEV_FLAGS_NO_RELAXED_ORDERING flag

cxgb4vf Ethernet driver now queries PCIe configuration space to
determine if it can send TLPs to it with the Relaxed Ordering
Attribute set, just like the pf did.

Signed-off-by: Casey Leedom <leedom@chelsio.com>
Signed-off-by: Ding Tianhong <dingtianhong@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Casey Leedom <leedom@chelsio.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>