bpf: Extend libbpf with bpf_map_lookup_and_delete_elem_flags

Add bpf_map_lookup_and_delete_elem_flags() libbpf API in order to use
the BPF_F_LOCK flag with the map_lookup_and_delete_elem() function.

Signed-off-by: Denis Salopek <denis.salopek@sartura.hr>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Yonghong Song <yhs@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/15b05dafe46c7e0750d110f233977372029d1f62.1620763117.git.denis.salopek@sartura.hr