RDMA/rxe: Move work queue code to subroutines

This patch:
	- Moves code to initialize a qp send work queue to a
	  subroutine named rxe_init_sq.
	- Moves code to initialize a qp recv work queue to a
	  subroutine named rxe_init_rq.
	- Moves initialization of qp request and response packet
	  queues ahead of work queue initialization so that cleanup
	  of a qp if it is not fully completed can successfully
	  attempt to drain the packet queues without a seg fault.
	- Makes minor whitespace cleanups.

Fixes: 8700e3e7 ("Soft RoCE driver")
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230620135519.9365-2-rpearsonhpe@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Bob Pearson <rpearsonhpe@gmail.com>
Acked-by: Zhu Yanjun <zyjzyj2000@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>