netfilter: nf_conntrack: use rcu accessors where needed

Sparse complains about direct access to the 'helper' and timeout members.
Both have __rcu annotation, so use the accessors.

xt_CT is fine, accesses occur before the structure is visible to other
cpus.  Switch to rcu accessors there as well to reduce noise.

Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>