selftests/bpf: support BPF_FLOW_DISSECTOR_F_STOP_AT_ENCAP

Exit as soon as we found that packet is encapped when
BPF_FLOW_DISSECTOR_F_STOP_AT_ENCAP is passed.
Add appropriate selftest cases.

v2:
* Subtract sizeof(struct iphdr) from .iph_inner.tot_len (Willem de Bruijn)

Acked-by: Petar Penkov <ppenkov@google.com>
Acked-by: Willem de Bruijn <willemb@google.com>
Acked-by: Song Liu <songliubraving@fb.com>
Cc: Song Liu <songliubraving@fb.com>
Cc: Willem de Bruijn <willemb@google.com>
Cc: Petar Penkov <ppenkov@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>