xprtrdma: Improve locking around rpcrdma_rep destruction

Currently rpcrdma_reps_destroy() assumes that, at transport
tear-down, the content of the rb_free_reps list is the same as the
content of the rb_all_reps list. Although that is usually true,
using the rb_all_reps list should be more reliable because of
the way it's managed. And, rpcrdma_reps_unmap() uses rb_all_reps;
these two functions should both traverse the "all" list.

Ensure that all rpcrdma_reps are always destroyed whether they are
on the rep free list or not.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>