ceph: use macros to normalize vxattr table definitions

Entries in the ceph virtual extended attribute tables all follow a
distinct pattern in their definition.  Enforce this pattern through
the use of a macro.

Also, a null name field signals the end of the table, so make that
be the first field in the ceph_vxattr_cb structure.

Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@dreamhost.com>
Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@newdream.net>