nfsd: convert fi_deleg_file and ls_file fields to nfsd_file

Have them keep an nfsd_file reference instead of a struct file.

Signed-off-by: Jeff Layton <jeff.layton@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>