fs: create kiocb_{start,end}_write() helpers

aio, io_uring, cachefiles and overlayfs, all open code an ugly variant
of file_{start,end}_write() to silence lockdep warnings.

Create helpers for this lockdep dance so we can use the helpers in all
the callers.

Suggested-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Reviewed-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
Message-Id: <20230817141337.1025891-4-amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>