RDMA: Update workqueue usage

* ib_wq is added, which is used as the common workqueue for infiniband
  instead of the system workqueue.  All system workqueue usages
  including flush_scheduled_work() callers are converted to use and
  flush ib_wq.

* cancel_delayed_work() + flush_scheduled_work() converted to
  cancel_delayed_work_sync().

* qib_wq is removed and ib_wq is used instead.

This is to prepare for deprecation of flush_scheduled_work().

Signed-off-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>