btrfs: remove BUG_ON() in find_parent_nodes()

We search for an extent entry with .offset = -1, which shouldn't be a
thing, but corruption happens.  Add an ASSERT() for the developers,
return -EUCLEAN for mortals.

Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>