virtio-mem: Don't rely on implicit compiler padding for requests

The compiler will add padding after the last member, make that explicit.
The size of a request is always 24 bytes. The size of a response always
10 bytes. Add compile-time checks.

Cc: "Michael S. Tsirkin" <mst@redhat.com>
Cc: Pankaj Gupta <pankaj.gupta.linux@gmail.com>
Cc: teawater <teawaterz@linux.alibaba.com>
Signed-off-by: David Hildenbrand <david@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20200515101402.16597-1-david@redhat.com


Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>