btrfs: add nesting tags to the locking helpers

We will need these when we switch to an rwsem, so plumb in the
infrastructure here to use later on.  I violate the 80 character limit
some here because it'll be cleaned up later.

Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>