xprtrdma: Replace rpcrdma_rep::rr_buffer with rr_rxprt

Clean up: Instead of carrying a pointer to the buffer pool and
the rpc_xprt, carry a pointer to the controlling rpcrdma_xprt.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagig@mellanox.com>
Tested-By: Devesh Sharma <devesh.sharma@avagotech.com>
Reviewed-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>