NLM/lockd: Fix a race when cancelling a blocking lock

We shouldn't remove the lock from the list of blocked locks until the
CANCEL call has completed since we may be racing with a GRANTED callback.

Also ensure that we send an UNLOCK if the CANCEL request failed. Normally
that should only happen if the process gets hit with a fatal signal.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <Trond.Myklebust@netapp.com>